What's worse, Sherise says, the roomie moved out in less than a month. "I kept leaving for smoke breaks because it just was too much." Her mind went into high gear: Was her roommate bisexual all this time? Had the two of them kissed before? Whose hand was that? "It was like having one plug and two outlets," she says. "It was hot and they pulled me in to the makeout session."īut soon, Sherise says, her "girl brain" kicked in and she started overthinking it. The idea of more than one extra person in my bed has never appealed to me the logistics of sex with one person can be complicated enough.īut not for Sherise, who had thought, "the more the merrier, like a party." She'd been dating her man for six months – the sex was good, she liked him a lot – when one night, while heavy on tequila and Rock Band, she turned around to see him kissing her roommate on the couch. Sherise, the Samantha to my Carrie, jumped right in with that admission, and there went the vino. It was girl's night: typically very loud, gossipy evenings involving wine, pizza, cutest Blue Jays player battles – standard girl talk. This statement, straight-faced from a dear friend, is what caused me to smash a bottle of red on my condo floor, after I quizzed my friends in the name of threesome research. The answer: "There was so much rubbing and tugging and pulling and licking and kissing, I just couldn't keep up." Am I messing with fire here? Should I leave this alone or do you think a third person can spice it up for us? It's something we've both joked about, but lately she's talked about where we find the third person and the logistics of how we would ask – which really excites me. We've been throwing the idea of a third person into the mix for quite some time. The hot sex has fizzled (with two moves, job changes, babies, etc.) It's always the same position, every time, and lasts for 10 to 15 minutes about once a week. The question: I've been married to my wife for 10 years – we have two kids and I'd say we are still a great couple. Have a question? Fire away: (All questions will be published anonymously.) Welcome to Sex Qs, a weekly column where The Globe's Amberly McAteer seeks answers to your sex questions, talking to sexperts and regular Canadians alike.
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